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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Go on a trip without a camera



I mean no offence to the photographers out there. But when you click a scene with your camera you kinda spoil the view for yourself. So all in all if you take a camera with you on the trip, you spoil the perfectness of scenes for yourself to share the imperfect photographs with others. I will explain below why i say your photographs "imperfect".

Look to the moon, stare at the peak or stare down from the peak, but no, don't touch your camera. I would recommend don't even take it with you on such trips. If you don'h have the camera with you, you wont just click a picture and move on, you will stand there for as long as you need to absorb the nectar of the scene. Because you know it is a rare event in your life.  Right then you realize the importance of being there at that very moment.

Camera is an invention of mankind made to enable us to share what we see. It is an instrument which gives you the feel of being somewhere you have not been, now, that is unethical. no matter how good your camera is, nothing can replace wind splashes on your face when you are on top of a snow covered peak, the silence and the satisfaction. I don't want me to hold a camera there; I want to lie down and watch the absolutely clear sky (it is less oxygen up there so the sky is slightly darker).

That is what science does, it tries to prove things once and for all, it replaces experience with the established rules (which are proved wrong overtime, all of them). You cannot establish a universal rule by performing a small experiment. But it does not stop at establishing a rule, then they tell this rule to other people, but the people have never actually experienced anything like it, yet they are forced to believe. There is a serious lack of craving for experience in most of the people in our society today, camera has helped lessening that craving.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Saying I love you

Who do you think is eligible to say "I love you"?

So? You think you found your life partner? Cannot live without propose her? Hormones going all crazy, the overwhelming feeling of excitement does not let you sleep in nights?

I was on my bike contemplating the mechanism of love, marriages etc. when it suddenly struck me (don't worry, my friend was driving), when can a person say "I love you" and really mean it?
There should be something common, a common thought may be, or a common gesture in all the lovers because they all think the same thing - that they love the person they are kneeling in front of.

After a thorough thinking (almost my entire evening) I finally came to the following conclusion:
One can only say and mean "I love you" when he knows what it would mean to say "I hate you" or not say anything at all.

If a person can make sense of a life in which he does not say anything to her, he is yet to fall in love with her, they should have more experiences together. THIS NOT A MATTER TO BE WORRIED ABOUT. Go out together more often, make some mistakes, get caught. May be someday time handcuffs you both together, it would make no sense to part then, right?

However, if a person can make sense of a life when he says "I hate you" to her, he should understand that he is proposing her to get into her house, money safe or worse - bed, and that he would regret it later when there is no going back. He is missing out on life.

So before you propose just try to make sense of your life without her, if you succeed, you should probably make some more love between you.

There you go, I just saved you from wasting your valuable time over a terrible love life.